“You should be the one to define the relationship, not waiting for her to accept you or choose you. You choose her.”
“Messaging must come with purpose, and that purpose is to meet.”
“I ve realized that being strong doesn t mean you have to do it alone.”
“The priceless value of your worth will never be understood or appreciated by those who have cheap taste. When someone doesn t value themselves first they ll destroy expensive things. Trying to get them to understand this truth and face themselves is the same as trying to nail jello to a tree. Cut the chord.”
“Ladies, I beg of you, stop acting like a girlfriend before he s earned it. Stop being his shoulder to cry on, his nurse, his bedmate, while waiting for him to make up his mind. Why should he? You re giving him all the perks of a relationship with zero commitment required. if he s okay with that to begin with, he s not about to change it.”
“Concerning the narcissist- after having been so seemingly incredibly loving and gentle, compassionate and caring- it would be like a light switch had suddenly been turned off and “all of a sudden” they simply did not care. They turned into a cold person, someone without love, compassion, empathy or regard for the subject’s feelings what so ever. It’s like they suddenly and literally stopped being human.”
“He is tall, dark, and handsome in an understated way. Sports jacket and black jeans. Shiny belt buckle. I am a voyeur, he is my guilty pleasure. Twinkle, twinkle lots of stars when he catches me watching him, our eyes lock in unison, a blush climbs my cheeks. He looks right through me. I feel champagne bubbles in my stomach even though tequila is lacing my veins.”
“Take your sensuality seriously. Because life and love are activated through it.”
“To lovers out there … Marriage counselling before you get married, it is very important. You need to speak your heart out and to be heard by your partner and they need to do the same. You need to speak about your problems, challenges, fear and flaws and on how you and your partner are going to resolve them , and they need to do the same. Don’t try to hide things or how you feel, because you want the marriage to work or the wedding to happen. Problems or mistakes that are not talked about and resolved in a marriage . Destroy marriage and destroy a person.”
“You should smile, look her in the eyes, and give her a small complement when you ask her out.”
“In the realm of love, there is a difference between the man who falls hard for a woman and the man who chases love, giving his own at the slightest return. Both love. Both can be passionate. One is a man who is himself and has found a person with whom he can transcend the mundane. The other is a man who has crafted a persona to emulate some contrived role.”
“If you claim to want a family, then you must seek a woman who wants a family. She may not say so at 22, but does she have the signs of a future mother? Place a baby in her arms. The more she looks at it and the less she looks at you holding the baby, the better. Watch her around children. Watch her around her grandparents. Watch her behavior when a friend is ill. Watch her with her dog. If a woman can dress up a dog and cry at its vet visits, she will cry for a child and already wants one, even if she doesn’t know it yet. She just has not found a man to lead her to motherhood, one who satisfied her primal standards.”
“The man who brings flowers to his woman every week walks into a trap of his own making. The week that he forgets will be the one she never will. The man who never gets his woman flowers leaves open a powerful possibility. The week that he does will be the one she will always remember. There is no sense in being a harmless rabbit, even if it is your nature. She wants a mysterious or dangerous animal who can show clemency and make an exception for her benefit.”
“Women are drawn to men who take risks. Not simply in the cultural memes of men on motorcycles, but in the scientific proof of their attraction to men with facial scars. The scars signal risk-taking, proof that the man survived a challenge and maybe even left a foe for the worse.”
“Usually standing up to bullies is all it takes, but some tormentors will stop at nothing to intimidate their victims. Victims need the support of adults and friends to help to get the bullies to stop.”
“How you are doing is often shaped by who you are doing.”
“Some men are each a ladies’ man. Some women are each a men’s lady.”