“Some people console themselves by telling themselves that at least their lover or spouse does not disrespect them enough to cheat on them openly.”
“Sex is often, or even usually, a woman’s conscious or subconscious way of paying a man for the service he provides, or has provided, of making her feel special, happy, alive, like the most important person … or merely important.”
“The only ‘problem’ that most marriages have managed to solve is that of not being married.”
“It is almost always, not just ‘Mr Right’, but ‘Mr Right … For Now’.”
“For men, sex is free only in theory.”
“We can fall out of love at second sight.”
“To lovers out there.... The biggest mistake you can do is to love someone who doesn t want to be loved. Taking your precious time and efforts trying to convince them that you love them. Only to find that they find your efforts and love as a joke . That is why they laugh at you and make fun of you with their friends. Love is not a game, that is why those who play with it, lose it.”
“Falling in love is a bit like stepping on the glimmers of light spinning inside a kaleidoscope. Nothing is in focus orientation is needless. It s about being in the light, being on the move, and being beautiful all at once.”
“Falling in love is a bit like stepping on the glimmers of light spinning inside a kaleidoscope. Nothing is in focus, orientation is needless. It s about being in the light, being on the move, and being beautiful all at once.”
“Every now and then, two men kill each other over a woman who neither loves nor likes either of them.”
“Some men’s type is women who have a vagina.”
“Some women are so cruel that they do not choose to at least not play hard to get, when they are being pursued by men who they know they will intentionally infect with HIV.”
“The last time I was single the men I was looking at were in their thirties and I still had that youthful image fixed in my head. It was depressing at first, choosing from a pool that s not regarded as desirable or vital in your society. [...] I managed to re-educate myself eventually. Now I m only attracted to people my age. A young face looks like a blank page to me.”
“In some cases, it is not the person that has changed, but their decision not to be themselves.”
“It is even more painful to have your heart broken by someone who you know does not deserve you.”
“So dating is a great opportunity to hear someone else’s stories. Listen to them actively and empathetically—and even share some of your own when it’s appropriate—but don’t kill the conversation with domination. Listening is a great way to find out if there’s something worth pursuing in that person sitting across from you.”
“On the spiritual path, the purpose of my relationship is to wake up and get to know ourselves and our lover, thoroughly, without judgment or pride. On the spiritual path, we enter into a shared union where we cherish and give to each other, expanding our ability to love unconditionally. We would also accept that the process an be awkward, unpredictable, challenging, and surprising.”