“I often say to people, I’m constantly healing from things I don’t even know I‘m still hurting from—past romantic relationships that ended whether on a good or bad note.”
“Sensuality matters because it is the source of not only the good life but peace, harmony and growth in relationships.”
“To lovers out there … When you get married , it won’t be happy days everyday. Things will sometimes eventually go wrong. Choose your partner based on their character, because. In marriage there are challenges, obstacles, problems, temptations, troubles, ups and downs. Choose someone with a character that can stand when things goes wrong. Someone with character that will be able to uplift you when your down. A character that will be able to carry you through all the challenges, obstacles and problems you will be facing in marriage.”
“Love is neither aggressive nor dramatic, love is raw.”
“To lovers out there ... A relationship must be 10 percent looks and 90 percent feelings, but some people have made it 100 percent about looks .That is why their relationship is always failing every time. Their relationship is about looks, not feelings. They end up looking at the wrong places and looking at the wrong people. They want their relationship to look like so and so relationship. They want their love to look certain way not to feel a certain way. Looks are deceiving and looks keep changing. Most relationship are toxic, bad, emotional draining, hurting, even when people look happy in them.”
“End of summer comes falling like a waterfall of midnight stars and I m crawling out of this nymphal skeleton leaving you like cicada do”
“Love is so much easy, but we’ve made it hard by not aligning to our sensuality.”
“Love could be so easy, but our inability to align with our sensuality makes it hard.”
“t’s time to be women who do not shrink before our men or lose ourselves in our lovers. It’s time to be women who know our value, acknowledge what we bring to the relationship, understand that we are passionate, emotional creatures and demand to be recognized and treated as such.”
“Too many relationships and marriages were working because they had parties to go to, weddings to attend, vacations to splurge on, other couples to compete with and people to impress. But now these couples have to sit in front of each other in a world that s ending and rebirthing as something entirely different, and they re realising, that when all those factors are taken away, the person in front of them is someone they don t even like. Friedrich Nietzsche once said, Invisible threads are the strongest ties and couples today are comprehending, that they don t have those threads. They only had the visible ones.”
“I ve met people who say they don t want relationships; but it s not the relationships that they don t want: it is the mundane dynamic that is named the relationship , which they despise. The struggle for control; the humdrum motions recycled by a billion other couples; the low rhythm that seems to cycle, repeating its monotonous hymn through the myriad crowds. They want to find someone and feel every vein in their body connect to that person, they want to fly with someone, they want what s natural; they want a partner. It s a partner they want. Not a relationship ; but a partner. A whole other person who wants to stay with their own whole person. They want something meant for them, or nothing at all.”
“There is no lack of harmony in the relationship of a sensual couple. Problems arise when sensuality is neglected.”
“Love doesn t mean sacrificing your mental health. Love doesn t mean sacrificing your mental stability. Love doesn t mean sacrificing your self-esteem and/or the validation of your feelings. Love doesn t mean the end of you. At the end of Love, you should find more of you, not less of you.”
“I am happy for couples who break up. It is never the fulfilled couples who break up; it s the unfulfilled couples who break up and more often than not, it s the excruciatingly difficult couples who break up. Happy relationships are not the ones that are ending. So when I see a separated couple I see two individuals who are strong enough to hope for more from life, strong enough to make a decision that benefits their wellbeing and happiness. I see two people who are now more hopeful, more brave, more tenacious and more ready for love, than they were before. That makes me happy.”
“I don t know why people need things to last forever before they can say that those things work . Nothing needs to last forever so I know they work . They work while they work and when it s time to move on, it s time to move on. The human body doesn t even last forever; does that mean it didn t work ? It fulfilled its purpose and then it moved on. We should expect nothing more from anything else.”
“I can only excel for a woman who has embodied her sensuality.”
“No agreement means no official relationship.”